久久亚洲国产成人影院-久久亚洲国产的中文-久久亚洲国产高清-久久亚洲国产精品-亚洲图片偷拍自拍-亚洲图色视频

?
中文USEUROPEAFRICAASIA
Culture

Tiger Moms not always the best parents

By Kelly Chung Dawson in New York ( China Daily ) Updated: 2013-08-13 07:25:18

Her own parenting approach today is a rebellion against what she sees as a cold pragmatism that robs children of their voices, an argument echoed recently in a study by University of Texas-Austin psychology professor Su-yeong Kim.

Kim's study demonstrated that children raised in Tiger Mother-style households have higher rates of depression - and lower grades.

Naturally, the report set off another wave of media coverage linked to Chua's book.

"People keep trying to pit me against Kim Wong Keltner, or to ask me to comment on that parenting study, and I keep telling them 'Look, all I did was write my personal family story,'" Chua says.

What much of the media coverage has failed to mention: The bottom line of Chua's book was that parenting is never one-size-fits-all. What worked with her first daughter was a resolute failure with her second, who ultimately succeeded not because of Chua's "Tiger Mother" parenting, but in spite of it.

While the marketing for Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother seemed to target Western audiences, Tiger Babies Strike Back will likely resonate most with Asian-American readers.

Keltner's warm, frank voice intercuts humor with emotional weight, and the lives she describes will surely ring true to the children of immigrant parents.

Chinese-American women of earlier eras were often poor, and more likely to have been focused on making ends meet than fretting over identity, she argues. It's within that context that these women, now in their later years, have applied their own experiences to motherhood.

Keltner notes that Asian-American women have the highest rate of suicide among senior citizens of any ethnicity.

Pressure to fit stereotypical ideas of success, intelligence and beauty can be incredibly harmful for people who don't naturally fit those standards, she says. A reticence about discussing flaws or problems also holds many Asian-Americans back for fear of shaming their families.

"So many Asians have this sense that they have something to say, but they're waiting for some kind of permission that's never going to come," she says.

"You're taught to not make a spectacle of yourself, and I guess I have just the right combination of bravery and stupidity to say 'Hey, how come no one is pointing out that the Tiger Mother idea is perpetuating a harmful stereotype and potentially hurting kids?' I wanted to mix it up, because there is an alternative."

 

Previous Page 1 2 Next Page

 
Editor's Picks
Hot words
Most Popular
 
...
...
主站蜘蛛池模板: 日韩三级黄| 曰韩美女一级视频 | 2019在线亚洲成年视频网站 | 中文字幕日韩有码 | 中文字幕亚洲日本岛国片 | 一级毛片一级毛片a毛片欧美 | 欧美韩国xxx| 日韩一区二区中文字幕 | 日韩a级毛片免费视频 | 免费毛片播放 | 欧美在线a| 日韩在线欧美 | 久久国产三级 | 国产精品久久久久一区二区三区 | 午夜久久网| 亚洲第一区香蕉_国产a | 久草免费色站 | 伊人久久国产免费观看视频 | 亚洲第一色网 | 色哟哟国产成人精品 | 荡公乱妇蒂芙尼中文字幕 | 欧美成人影院在线观看三级 | 亚洲美女aⅴ久久久91 | 97国产免费全部免费观看 | 欧美一区二区日韩一区二区 | 无内丝袜透明在线播放 | 欧美一级高清在线观看 | 印度最猛性ⅹxxxxx | 欧美黄色高清 | 爱爱亚洲| 91久久香蕉国产线看 | 亚洲精品国产一区二区三区四区 | 精品一区二区三区免费视频 | 亚洲国产成人超福利久久精品 | 国产美女一级毛片 | 日本一级特黄在线播放 | 久久精品二三区 | 99精品福利视频 | 亚洲天堂网在线观看 | 15—17女人毛片| 亚洲成人在线视频播放 |